From This Side of the Couch…
A collection of writings from a therapist / mom / veteran / human
You’re Not “Low-Maintenance”. You’re Just Not Saying What You Need.
Many people pride themselves on being the “low-maintenance” partner in relationships - easygoing, agreeable, and not asking for much. But over time, constantly minimizing your own needs can quietly lead to resentment and disconnection. This article explores how the idea of being low-maintenance develops, why it often backfires, and what healthier relational honesty actually looks like.